Caring for your kid is a good thing, because it can make them feel loved and appreciated. But some kids can feel stressed that they have to keep that love. It can also make them feel drained by trying to push themselves to do much. And some kids can feel embarrassed by it and because of that it can make them feel that being loved is a bad thing or it can make them anxious about it. But the person caring can feel that they are not giving enough and that makes them feel that they need to give more. So this then leads to the loop of stress, pressure, and anxiety.